You don't think we could work out a compromise or, I don't know, something? Does it have to only be that you tell me what you want and if I don't like it, that's it?

You've never even met him! You might like him if you did...

But... you... I don't want to choose, dammit! But I don't like you being miserable, either! Do you think I can't see that you are, at least a lot of the time?