...Do you live under a rock? No, really, I mean it. "Talking won't solve anything?" Because your method of evading the issue has been working so well, Matt.
Have you not seen his requests, his almost-pleas for you to talk to him so he has some idea where he stands, what he's doing?
NOT talking to him allows him to imagine the worst. You are obviously not "fine" and he knows you well enough to see that, probably even knows better than you do how far from "fine" you really are about all this, because you scarcely want to admit it to yourself, none the less to him.
Where I was going with that is that not talking makes him worry more, which you're right, he doesn't really need.
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Date: 2006-09-02 09:11 am (UTC)Have you not seen his requests, his almost-pleas for you to talk to him so he has some idea where he stands, what he's doing?
NOT talking to him allows him to imagine the worst. You are obviously not "fine" and he knows you well enough to see that, probably even knows better than you do how far from "fine" you really are about all this, because you scarcely want to admit it to yourself, none the less to him.
Where I was going with that is that not talking makes him worry more, which you're right, he doesn't really need.